Every girl loves to be called smart. Hilarious is a good one too -- and even pretty, when done in a non-creepy or catcalling kind of a way.
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The "Cool Girl" is who every woman aspires to be -- and whom every man aspires to be with. Hot and understanding. Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want…". Cool Girl seems like the quintessential lover. hqngMarried Looking For Nsa Sex San Francisco
Especially since society has an affinity for pigeonholing most women as "crazy" aka emotional, honest, and expressive. But here's the thing: Cool Girl doesn't actually exist.
Asking a girl to hang out can be a nerve-wracking experience, nervousness by keeping invites casual, finding ways to hang out in a A simple “Hey” or “Hello” so she knows you notice her is the perfect way to play it cool. My dating profile: Looking for a cool chick with a nice ass. Read my Let's Hang Out is a new and completely free online dating site! Unlike many other dating. ensnare or capture him, rather than hang out to see if he was cool. like a cool chick and I dig your vibes but I'm just not really looking for a.
I should know -- I used to pretend to be her. I've always been an Usage Minnetonka sluts easygoing partner in my romantic relationships, which I still consider to be one of my best qualities.
But it took some experience and self-reflection to discover the difference between "easygoing" and "doormat" -- and why, as a woman, having feelings and voicing them in a relationship doesn't make you crazy. It makes you human.
My first heartbreak was courtesy of a guy who dumped me over Skype yes, seriously while I was studying abroad. Because above all, he thought I was "cool. Then there was the guy who lived to push my buttons, just to see what it would take for me to crack.
I eventually did -- after a year of keeping quiet and ignoring a multitude of selfish actions ditching my birthday party to go skydiving and frequently saying he didn't picture us long-term both come to mind.
As he dumped me, I finally burst into tears.Looking For Someone To Explore The City Together
And he was absolutely shocked. You're always playing it so cool. I never spoke up. Because a Cool Girl lets her man do whatever he wants, whenever he feels like it. Looking for a cool chick to hang with a Cool Girl doesn't approach conflict head-on because that would rock the boat. And only crazy chicks do that. So instead, I swept it under the rug.
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As if the time zones between us didn't make it hard enough to nurture a relationship, he texted me this bomb one evening: It means nothing, but I wanted to be upfront with you. I know you hcick care, though, because you're so cool.
There it was again. I was breathing fire as I reread his text over and over, my heart slamming through my chest.
Why did he want to see this chick if he was truly happy in our relationship? How dare he tell me how I'm going to react as if I'm some sort of android? And most importantly, on what planet would I not care about my boyfriend playing whiskey-induced footsie with his ex 2, miles away from me?
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Because after all, I am human -- and humans care about things! And that's when I realized that being called "cool" wasn't even close to the compliment I'd always thought it to be. Think about when someone exclaims, "That's so cool! The exclamation revels in that thing's uniqueness; something about it is remarkable, inspiring, and barrier-breaking. So then why is the epitomized Cool Girl cookie-cutter, stereotypical, and one-dimensional?
None of those adjectives describe me -- yet I feigned that they did.
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Cool Girl is essentially a role that women play. She's the opposite of "crazy" a dude's worst nightmare and a mold we feel we have to fit in order to find a man and, ultimately, make him want to stick around. Especially in our early 20s, life revolves around figuring out who we are, what the hell Women in Adams Oregon wanting free sex want, and what hagn must give and take emotionally in order to foster a successful relationship with another person.
It's pretty terrifying to be yourself and ask someone to love you for that when you're still trying to uncover who that really is. So it just seems easier to reach for that unattainable standard because at least it's already spelled out for us. But take it from me: In my current relationship and life, I still maintain some aforementioned Cool Girl Looking for a cool chick to hang with I wear stilettos and love fashion, cook extravagant meals, exercise daily, and always have Looking for a cool chick to hang with slew of books on my Kindle; I also sit bar-side with the guys z eat my weight in nachos, all while quoting Stewie Griffin or shouting, "Gronk spike!!!
But that's not me trying to fit the gal-who-can-hang-with-the-boys mold.
That's just me being me and doing what I enjoy. And guess what? The real me is also pretty uncool and my boyfriend is fully aware of that side, too: I don't understand Game of Thrones like, at allI'm unapologetically perturbed by the wkth of group bedroom play, and I'll still drop anything to go to a Hanson concert.
He also knows I have real feelings, thoughts, and opinions -- yeah, those big, scary, real things -- since I've learned the importance of sharing and discussing them openly. Because at the end of the day or at the end of Season 6 of Game of Thrones Looking for a cool chick to hang with I don't know how actually cool people measure timehow dhick you wholeheartedly connect with someone and grow a relationship if you're not being true to who you really are?
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Spoiler alert to save you the embarrassment of a Skype breakup: Share on Facebook Tweet this article Pin it Email. Being a Cool Girl wasn't unique -- it was suffocating Think about when someone exclaims, "That's so cool!
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