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And more importantly, sticking it out is totally worth it, because that, too, will change. It expands and contracts and Fuck a wife in gravesend and deepens. Love is a funny thing. In ancient times, people genuinely considered love a sickness. Parents warned their children against it, and adults quickly arranged marriages before their children were old enough to do something dumb in the name of their emotions.

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Conflicts are ultimately unavoidable, and feelings will always be hurt. You will judge their choices and encroach on their independence. You will feel the need to hide things from one another for fear of criticism.

And this is when the cracks in the edifice begin to appear.

My husband and I have been together 15 years this winter. You have to feel it deep within you. I deeply and genuinely respect him for his work ethic, his patience, his creativity, his intelligence, and his core values. From this respect comes everything else—trust, patience, perseverance because sometimes life is really hard and you both just have to persevere.

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It may hurt, but you still need to do it. No one else can fix your relationship for you. Nor should anyone else. Behind respect, trust was the most commonly mentioned trait for a healthy relationship.

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